Can't get over my ex......?

In january i met this guy and we went out for a couple months but we really loved eaach other. the only problem is that he lives across the country from me. We broke up mutually because he thought i needed a real boyfriend that lives near me. I see a future with him i guess when i can finally see him in person. He seems like a guy that i could be with forever and its wierd but everytime i see a picture of him or reread the terribly cute texts he texted me when we were together i just feel so in love. but i cant go through high school without having some relationships because of prom and dances and frankly i like having someone there for me. so i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for over a month now. i met him four months ago. he is so nice and he cares so much for me. we hung out and stuff before he asked me to be his girlfriend and i was so happy about it because i really like him. now when i hang out with him it doesnt seem any different than when we were just friends. except now we make out :) he told me he loved me a week ago and i didnt say it back but i dont really believe he feels that way. maybe in time but i personally think its too soon. i told my ex i loved him after A WEEK and he told me too. but i actually meant it which is why i dont know why its different this time. i am NOT experienced with relationships......ive only had these two....and its hard for me because i just recently looked back over my exes texts and i felt so in love again but i feel so bad that i havent even told my new bf about him. and also my bf and i have never talked about our past relationships and what we have ya know done with them. so i dont even know what he wants from me. for all i know he wants to do it but i will never do anything beyond making out with a guy. i know it sounds wierd but im kinda sheltered so i have never done anything and i dont plan to until im married, but with my ex that wasnt a problem because i never saw him.....so please help me this is so hard and there isnt really a defined question here but i just need some advice from guys and girls whichever. thank you so much for your help......i need it